and I'm back in Our Nation's Capital, living about five blocks from the White House.
What will I miss about Carbondale?
1) The sense of closeness to nature: even in back of the Wal-Mart in the city's sprawl district, there were cornfields and you could hear the birds and crickets. Where I lived (about a 10 minute walk from City Hall) I got woken up by the birds, and saw not just birds but wild rabbits etc. (not to mention too many insects, though thankfully no roaches). In Washington, I feel like humans are in control. In Carbondale I felt like animals really ran the place, and humans are just tenants.
2) The sheer smallness of the place: you can walk from one end of town to the other in just two hours.
3) SIU Law, a wonderful place to work.
(Not to mention human beings who know who they are, one in particular).
What I won't miss: Mainly just that there isn't enough Jewish life to make me happy. The synagogue only meets on Friday nights (a concession that they've given up on Saturday and Yom Tov), so I pretty much had to create my own Jewish life on Shabbos and Yom Tov. And walking to synagogue on Friday nights through muddly, sidewalkless hills (see here for examples of what that was like) is not an experience I would like to repeat again.
I no longer feel the urge to live in a place as big as Washington. But I would like to live in a place with a daily minyan, so that if my parents die before me I could say Kaddish for them. (Of course I realize that some of you might think this is nutty- on the other hand, people more observant than I might not think this is asking enough). Carbondale falls on the wrong side of the line (though some pretty small places fall on the right side - for example, I think Champaign-Urbana has a daily minyan).
Posted by lewyn
at 5:21 PM EDT